Don't Fool Yourself with Love because It Kills

Love... it sure is a very beautiful word. Just by looking at the word, you can feel something. Well, I'm pretty sure everyone's heard of the phrase, "The power of love". But honestly, is love really that powerful or are humans just too vulnerable to handle it. Talking about a mother sacrificing for her child, yes... that's the power of love. But talking about couple relationships, it's just vulnerability. Let's face it.. in relationships, there are no such thing as "one true love" or "the only one". If it exists, then there won't be break ups, betrayals, or divorce. It'll be just one to one forever and ever. But apparently, there are break ups and betrayals everywhere at every minute. This is REALITY... let's face it.

I believe that in relationships, it's more towards animal instinct. It is in the nature that the girls attract and guys get attracted, and therefore moves from one flower to another. The only reason why couples stay together is because of strong commitment. I'm pretty sure they still get attracted to other people at times. If you just depend on the concept of love alone, things will never work out. Don't fall too much for the ideology of true love.

I just find it ridiculous that some people take it way too seriously. When there's break up, some people cry and cry for days, weeks, months or even years. Some torture themselves and even worse, some take away their own lives. I mean WHY?? Some say that's love...Bullshit! I'll say, how about the love for yourself?? The love for yourself is true love. We won't be able to give love to other people if we don't love ourselves. Like the saying, "Love yourself before you can love others"

In this world, there're more than 7 billion people. Let's assume gender distribution is half-half. That means there will be another 3.5billion people of the opposite sex. Ummm.. I might have to reduce the number because nowadays people fall for the same gender. Reduce to the max... well we still have 2.5 billion people of the opposite sex to choose from. And do you believe that out of the 2.5 billion, only one suits you?? HELL NO!!! It's just the matter of time because we can't meet all the 2.5 billion people.

What I'm trying to emphasise here is, don't fool yourself by saying he or she's the only one for you. When there's a break up, it's not the end of the world!! There're plenty and plenty of others. After each break up, you learn and experience and then you'll find a better one for the next relationship until a point where both parties are loyal to each other. NEVER hide and isolate yourself just because of one break up. That's stupid especially when it's only a boyfriend-girlfriend relationship. Another saying, "New ones only come when the old one goes".

Loyalty is of-course very important but when things happen, it happens. ALWAYS LEARN TO LET IT GO!!!

I'm trying to help those who has been suffering because of their relationship problems.

Regards,
Jorzac